Kelsey Aida

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Why Self-Love is the Key to Manifesting Your Best Life

If there is one thing I’ve learned from years of teaching manifestation and self-love to hundreds of thousands of people, it’s that self-love is the key to manifesting your best life.

And I’m not the only one who has come to this conclusion. I’ve also interviewed hundreds of the best coaches and thought leaders in the industry (on my podcast High Vibin’ It) and they all agree. Self-love is the way!

So why does self-love impact your manifesting abilities so much? Well, that’s exactly what we’re gonna dive into here. Let’s begin, shall we?

A self-love practice makes you a match for miracles

When you practice, deep, unapologetic, and unconditional love for self, thanks to the good ol’ Law of Attraction, your life starts to reflect that love right back at ya!

A real self-love practice will involve a lot of healing work, setting boundaries, self-forgiveness, compassion, discovering your needs, reclaiming your desires, and nourishing yourself in all forms… which naturally raises your vibration.

The side effect? You feel a whole lot better and become a vibrational match to your highest potentials. Embracing self-love truly changes your life from the foundational, vibrational level.

Life is all relationships

I’m gonna let you in a little-known secret about life: Life is all about relationships. And the better your relationships are, the better your life becomes.

You have relationships with people. You have a relationship with your job and money. You have a relationship with your house and car. You’re in a relationship with social media, food, exercise, sleep, politics, you name it!

Because the law of attraction works like a mirror, and everything in life is just relationships, the healthier your relationship with yourself is, the better all your relationships get. The ones with other people, and all the rest of them.

And, from a spiritual perspective, you are technically one with everything and everyone, meaning it is all you. So how you relate to yourself on a daily, human level, is how you relate to everything and everyone on a macro level.

Improve your relationship to yourself and you’ll improve every single area of your life, for the long term. Talk about a life hack!

Self-love is the fastest way to manifest your soul mate

Looking to manifest your soul mate? The quickest way is to become your own soul mate first and then the Universe will have to bring the perfect partner right to you.

I struggled for years to manifest the right partner, but the one shift I made that finally called in my husband was going all in on self-love. Once I finally did that, he came right into my experience and surpassed all my expectations of what a healthy partnership could be. I see this every time with my coaching clients too.

Again your relationship with yourself sets the stage for every other relationship in your life, especially romantic! I cannot stress this enough if you’re trying to manifest love; Love yourself and they will come.

And to be clear, it’s not about loving yourself so others will love you. People will love you no matter what because you are inherently loveable.

But if you don't feel deserving of love, you'll resist it, even when it's offered. Self-love allows you to receive love fully because you believe you deserve it, which will help you to finally let it in.

You make more money & receive more blessings

Owning your worth also does wonders for your wallet! When you understand your value other people will too.

When I really learned how to love myself I finally found the confidence to charge what my work was worth and started making more money than ever.

I see this transformation often at my Radical Self-Love Retreats as well. Women realize their true worth and gain the confidence to finally start that business or dive deeper into their gifts and passions… leading to more financial abundance.

Not to mention the amazing boundaries that come with self-love. Especially when it comes to how and what is worth your time, or not. When you love yourself you protect yourself, your time, and your precious energy to leave space for what matters the most.

Overall, a sold self-love practice makes you a master receiver in many ways. When you can receive the love of your own heart, it’s so much easier to receive everything else -love, compliments, support, connection, money, and more!

The Key Takeaway

When you embrace yourself wholeheartedly, your life will too. In all my years of teaching manifestation and self-love, I have found no better manifesting “hack” than a super solid self-love practice.

And the best part? It doesn’t have to be long, hard, or complicated! True self-love is a lifestyle shift, a mentality, that you adopt once and then practice and enjoy for the rest of your days.

Ready to manifest your best life with self-love?

Join me and a small group of lucky women in paradise to learn all my self-love secrets and establish a life-changing practice that works! If you're ready to welcome miracles, enjoy the luxury of the beach, and start manifesting your dream life with ease, consider joining us! Learn more about the next Radical Self-Love Retreat here.